There are so many benefits to mutual masturbation:. Another option is to just go for it in the moment. Once your partner is fingering you or giving you a hand job, put your hand over theirs. You can also switch off, letting them touch you for a minute or two, then touching yourself for a minute. Or you can try tag-teaming your body together.
The ORGASMIC Way Mutual 'Self-Pleasure' Can Heat Up Your Love Life
How to Try Mutual Masturbation
Why you really need to try mutual masturbation with a partner
One of the biggest misconceptions people have in relationships is that your partner is going to know your body better than you know it yourself. That's one of the many reasons why masturbation — especially mutual masturbation — can help create better intimacy in a relationship, both sexually and emotionally. For many women who are married or in long-term relationships, the frustration of not having an orgasm during sex or even foreplay can cause a lack of enjoyment and intimacy problems in the relationship. The best way to discover how to have an orgasm is to masturbate on your own and see what feels good.
Many of us masturbate. When I first bought my beloved Doxy mains-powered wand vibrator which rumbles with more strength than the belly of a dragon on hunger strike — I used it so much that I bruised my cooze. While travelling with friends in South East Asia, I pretended to have food poisoning just so I could spend an uninterrupted half-hour self-pleasuring in the hotel bathroom.