But in the last year, that has all changed. Same age, super cool, and is out [as gay]. For some reason, I have found myself strangely attracted to him. I can imagine sending this note was not easy and that it required a lot of courage to write all of this out in the first place. The simple answer to what you have asked is yes, a straight man can fall in love with a gay man. In fact, a straight man can fall in love with another man, period. You probably were working out at your gym, doing some random exercises and at some point, realized you needed a spotter.
Help! I'm in Love With a Gay Man! (What to Do When You're a Woman With a Taste for Gay Guys)
The Last Time I Fell In Love With A Straight Boy
Ask Ammanda: I'm gay but I've fallen in love with a straight man
What other explanation is there for why I fell for a gay guy who I had no chance of ever being with? When I confided in a female friend about my feelings for him, she said it was like I was into women. Um, no.
Four months ago, while working away from home on a contract, I hooked up with a guy on a dating site. It was an incredible experience. He said he was straight though, and that he had never been with a guy before, apart from messing around in his teens and was just curious. Within minutes of our rendezvous, he messaged me to say how fantastic the sex was and that he wanted to see me again.