Couples in committed, non-monogamous relationships — also referred to as "swinging" or "the lifestyle" — are often thought to be part of a tiny underground community that never escaped the weirdo world of the s sexual revolution. In reality, people in the lifestyle are more prevalent than you might think there are even a ton of celebrities into the lifestyle. While they might be having better bedroom activities than you, not all of the facts about swinging the public "knows" are true. They're not all old and bored, and you'd probably be hard-pressed to find any sporting terrible leisure suits or questionable mustaches. Most people into the lifestyle are professionals with families and have very successful, happy marriages. There are rules and regulations in the lifestyle, though.
My life in sex: the swinging unicorn
My life in sex: the swinging unicorn | Life and style | The Guardian
One of the biggest misconceptions from those outside the swinging arena is that women are forced into the lifestyle by their husbands or partners. Granted, one spouse might bring up the subject of swinging, but maintaining an active role in the swinging lifestyle is definitely a consensual agreement between both partners. Would I have ever given swinging a try had John not already been involved? Probably not, as I never even knew there was such a thing. Am I glad I gave swinging a try?
12 Things Most People Don't Know About The Swinging Lifestyle
Swinging , sometimes called wife swapping , husband swapping or partner swapping , is sexual activity in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in such activities with others as a recreational or social activity. People may choose a swinging lifestyle for a variety of reasons. Many cite an increased quality and quantity of sex. Some people may engage in swinging to add variety into their otherwise conventional sex lives or due to their curiosity.
When a couple finds one they find attractive, and who is truly bisexual and enjoys the lifestyle, they are deemed to have found the illustrious unicorn. Coming late to the lifestyle, I wandered on to a swinging website with a view to having my first threesome aged Being a divorced single mother, I craved a release and what I saw as the perfect real-life porn. Luckily for me, my first meet was with a very sweet and beautiful younger couple.